O meni: Since I get dozens of messages from guys every week, I don't chat with men on this site. I am quite turned off by the thought of it... my father abused me and two men tried to force sex on me, so I gotta pass on any advance from a man. I am flattered, but I NEVER want to chat with ANY men on this site. I am not interested in making any male friends here. If I do accept a friend request from you and you are a guy, this does not mean that I want to chat with you. I am 100% against meeting up with or even chatting with ALL men. Please do not send me unsolicited messages of your penis or any sex act including a man. If you send me a dick picture, you will get blocked. I don't care how much you love your own junk -- I don't want to see it. If any man sends me a DM after I accept your friend request, I will un-friend you and block you. I ABSOLUTELY don't want to hear anything you have to say; far too many of you get creepy immediately - ask Mohammed, he ruined it for everybody. I am not a crossdresser -- haven't been since starting HRT back in 2018. I can not change my username on this site. I used to crossdress before identifying as a trans woman and beginning to medically transition. I am about 2 1/2 years into taking estrogen, progesterone, while blocking testosterone for the first 15 months. During most of the last two years, my libido has crashed. I almost never think of sex. More correctly, I am not driven like I had been to have sexual contact. Much of my interpersonal contact gives me a much more satisfying feeling of genuine friendships and better quality affection. Yes, I cry a lot more about all kinds of things that are emotionally evoking -- I actually like to cry sometimes. In the first few months of my transition, I put a lot of time and energy into those things that would help me to pass scrutiny in public. My makeup skills went from being very bad at everything to being better than most of my cis female friends. I used to think that I would wear so much lingerie after my body started changing... yeah, not so much. All of my boy-clothes had been donated a long time ago and I only like to wear comfortable clothing. I hope to make more content in the coming months. Cheers and my best regards!! 😁